people who make their blogs "friends only" shouldn't be allowed on Live Journal, or the blogosphere at all!

After all, this is a public forum.
The WHOLE CONCEPT of a blog and blogging is that we're having a conversation.
So if what YOU want is to have something private with 3 or 4 real world buddies -go have that -- out in the real world, not on here, this is for BLOGS.
BLOGS are PUBLIC. They're for other people to read
(and so they MIGHT actually wish to leave a comment too!)
-and if they're NOT for other people to read...DON'T PUT THEM HERE!
You're WASTING all of our TIME, getting us interested in something, only to find(after we've spent 15 minutes of our life, typing you a comment)THAT IT WON'T POST!!!!
...Does anyone know how to spot that a journal is friends only, BEFORE you go to the trouble of having been enticed-but-tricked (into wasting the time)?
'Cause I REALLY need to know.
WHERE does it say on someone's journal:
"WARNING:I AM AN A#SH*LE, SEEKING TO ENTICE YOU INTO WASTING YOUR TIME,
PART OF YOUR LIFE YOU'LL N E V E R BE ABLE TO GET BACK!"
Where? Where does it say that, so I'll know?
Any body?
